Loneliness is not a good; honestly a really fucking bad feeling.
I know this feeling so good and sometimes it comes so strong. But I found a way dealing loneliness!
“Loneliness and the feeling of being unwanted I the most terrible poverty”
– Mother Teresa
Who is alone feels desperate, excluded, unloved and lost. It’s a feeling of absolutely emptiness and desperation. The human things he’s not wanted, excluded by the company and strange.
Loneliness often happens, when something change. Move in a different city, a new job, a new class, because we left our normal and familiar place.
But loneliness comes also in usual environment!
If we don’t do something to overcome it, it can become a chronic disease and we would get ill.
Loneliness is an important alarm signal.
But it’s our choice to do something and change our feelings. We have to find out the reason, what’s missed and how to come over the loneliness!
Many people think that, you can only be lonely, if you are alone. But that’s not right.
I can be alone and really happy with it.
Not every single want to be in a relationship. Some others don’t need a big circle of friends, no much meetings. They like to be with themselves.
To be alone means not, to feel loneliness.
But sometimes when I be in a group of people, I feel lonely.
Loneliness doesn’t depend, if others like you and want to be with you. It depends, what you think about yourself and your fellow humans – It depends on you!
Reasons of Loneliness
People, who are lonely, thinks they aren’t loveable. They have so many bad thoughts about them self. “No matter what happen to me”, “No one understand me”, “Something is wrong with me” …
One reason of loneliness is a low self-esteem. But if you have fear to speak with someone or only answer questions, you will have problems to connect with others. Then it’s easy to think that nobody like you or everyone thinks I’m strange.
Sometimes you have to high expectations on friends. But didn’t you demand too much of your friends? And what’s with us? Are we do enough for our friendships?
“We sometimes think we want to disappear, but all we really want is to be found.”
Here you come to my next article about how to get over loneliness:
I hope you like my article and I could help you.
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Leonie the Lion